Why Is It So hard To Find Someone WHO CARES ABOUT YOU?
Has that thought ever crossed your mind? Or have you just never given it much thought at all?
I was sitting listening to Music by Three days Grace and in one of their songs thats what the lead singer transposes across to his listeners and I just sat there and realized this song has been on my iPod forever and a day and it'sprobably played so many times but I never gave the lyrics much of a listen until a few minutes,I thought wow this song is so true in one of the versus he says :
"Why is it so hard to find someone who cares about you but its easy enough for someone to look down on you"
I thought thats so true and it came to me that as you may be reading this and your world may be dissasembled or dessasembling you just have to keep your head up ,you may feel betrayed but you can escape the bitter taste of what life is throwing at you ,you can break away from everything and take yourself to higher places,you the only one who can change your fate be the change you want to see in the world.
I always thought I could live life with holding things inside and although I know it's not good,It's just how I deal with things it feels as if I'm frozen inside and I realized that I live in a world so cold,im living in a shell with no soul I feel like im wasting away im left behind I feel like im losing my mind,I used to say to people that I was nothing without them and while this is true there is people I have encountered through out my life that Have helped me acomplish things that have made me the person I am today,the rises and falls I have experienced have played a big part in who I am too,I just keep reminding myself and you should too if you going through a dificult time that you have to make things work with what you have there's people out there who are happier with much less than what you have.I know you may feel like all you want is a little of the goodlife and YOU HAVE TO MAKE THAT HAPPEN!
STAND UP FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN ,GET KNOCKED DOWN 7 TIMES STAND BACK UP 8,SHOW EVERYONE THAT YOU HAVE A REASON TO STAY AND THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO LIVE IN FEAR.
love? Really? What is this? Does It Exsist? Where Do I find It?
This word to begin with firstly gets thrown around too much if you have to ask me.ALL OF THEE ABOVE ARE QUESTIONS THAT WE HAVE ASKED.
The truth being that the answer to the above differs for each person,I mean speaking of the perfect example here I am writting this blog yet I have my doubts about Love believe it or not I do and for me personally I think this is pretty normal for anyone,people in this world do and say things which cloud our judgement a lot of the times.
same note people base how they feel and what to look for based on that movie for I mean let's be honest we watch a romantic movie and everyone walks out the movie house feeling like they just witnessed how a PERFECT relationship should be and im not here to tell you that those type of relationships don't exsist because they probably do but with that being said on the example,I'm guility of ths so don't worry or stress if you are too,all we need to do is just believe in OUR hearts and follow what it says instead of letting our brain do OUR HEARTS WORK. We strong and stable enough to persevere in our own bliefs andwith that being said I'm sure "LOVE" will be found im not claiming to be the love doctor either but from past experiences that have now influenced my current one's I can tell you that I know what the exact of opposite of love is and that's hatetred it's something that is capabale of tearing you up inside and you may feel like it's a storm that you can weather but it proves you wrong,having hatetred towards someone takes a lot more effort than to love someone,but like I said things happen that cloud our judgement and alhough it's difficult to see at times being positive can guide you through this,it's all about vulnerability,being open and not being afraid to hurt.
"iF there's no pain there's no game"
Being loved by someone gives you the courage ,true love never dies but instead gets stronger with time.All im saying is appreciate those who ARE here for you ,those who tell you that LOVE YOU,THE ONE'S THAT take the time to prove andshow it and as far as the ones that dont well move on.
People come and go in life and the reason this is that as each new person enters and by the time they leave there's a life lesson that needs to be acknoweledged AND MAYBE WHEN WE DO ACKNOWELEDGE MAYBE THINGS WILL HAPPEN UNEXPECTED
it's been a few months since iv posted something new to my blog.Im glad to announance to you that I am a fellow survivor of the 21st of December 2012. ;)
The world has not come to end but rather a new year has begun.My life while ,on the other hand that is still pretty much the same =)
It's a late Saturday Afternoon and well everyone is busy making their way to the Red Hot Chilli Pepers im here in front of my Pc telling you about my life ,how boring right?
In These past few months that I havent posted my latest Life lesson that I have learnt is that "DISTANCE CAN SEPERATE PEOPLE APART FROM ONE ANOTHER" why is it that I say this? Well because no matter how hard you try to stay close to them it just doesn't work out,at the end of the day you just sit wherever you are try to filter that person out of your head and continue to try and convince yourself that they don't matter ,but the problem with that is that you still thinking about them?
the New Challenge=Don't give a shit about people who don't give a shit about you easier said then done right but thats why its called a challenge. Why put in all the effort when they never do? Why protect them when they don't do the same for you,why worry while they dont have a clue?
but its better to be alone than have a bunch of fellows who come and go?
riddle me that
